Had a meet up with my fellow SIFErs yesterday for dinner, got me thinking on the journey back..
What defines a friendship? Time, an experience, a feeling, an emotion. I guess friendship can be kickstarted based on a common experience, feeling or emotion and more imptly, it is sustained thru time. Makes sense rite. I will still stick to my timeless definition of a friendship : If you are criticized by your friend, and you dont feel insulted. Then you got a friendship there.
More importantly, I guess at times it's human nature to be selfish but being human also allows us to be selfless as well. Thus, if attending someone's birthday party puts a smile on the face of the birthday girl/guy, then go for it. Haha. It's as simple as that.
As we keep on travelling our journey of life, in fact I keep on asking alot of qns abt many issues. The thing is not all are readily answered by your close ones. Some of them have to be answered by you. You can find the answer or leave it to chance. Sometimes, even planning might not even see u achieving the intended goal.
Well, lets see how it goes. For now, Chak DE!!!
1 comments:
"If you are criticized by your friend, and you dont feel insulted. Then you got a friendship there. "
I agree with that.this means there is something strong between both of them.:)
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